Drive a non-luxury vehicle.
Skip Happy Hours
Do not send Happy Birthday/Anniversary cards to clients when the computer alerts you to.
Do not spend millions of dollars on advertisements for my brand.
Do not buy designer brand outfits and accessories.
I joke, but as I am in my 18th year of real estate, I have had most of these things told to me over the course of my career. Maybe it’s partly the rebel in me, but I’ve never wanted to run my business like a salesman. Let me be clear- I AM a salesperson! However, the only time I am selling is when I have a listing (representing a Seller), or when I am selling my Buyer’s offer (negotiating is high in sales techniques). I might be allergic to sales otherwise. I’ve never wanted to feel like I am manipulating my clients, and I have never wanted to steer them. I know that I am a good salesperson, I have consistently been in the top sales ranking of other companies I have worked for, but I highly self-monitor and communicate to make sure I am not using my Salesy super power on my clients. A house is typically the largest investment a person will make in their life, that is not the time to be swayed.
One of my first mentors, decades ago, told me about taking his client out and pushing their daughter on a swing in the nearby park, and asking them if they could see themselves living their lives there. He bragged about increasing their purchase price by several thousand to get them into that house. I left soon after that. (Note: If a Realtor pushes your daughter on a swing, it is not an indicator of them “selling you” on the property. ;} )
With the increase in social media, and increased competition, it was advised in the industry to start making videos, advertise online with lead capture websites, etc. and I tried it. I don’t want to become a dinosaur in the industry. I am still 13 years younger than the average real estate agent, but this has been a life long career for me. I have to keep up as changes happen in the industry. What I found was that it just didn’t fit who I was or how I have always wanted to run my business.
What I have done instead:
I have prioritized education. I am constantly looking to increase my knowledge for the benefit of my clients.
I have loved on lots of people, and hosted lots of parties! It was never in my radar to meet people to increase my sphere! In fact, I helped create a social media group for parents in my neighborhood. It was great! We traded toys, met up for coffee and BBQ’s, babysat each other’s kids, and worked together to help give input to remodel the city park. I could have used social media to create a real estate group, that would have benefited me greatly, but it’s just not on my radar. Real estate is nothing without communities, and I would rather help build communities than sales. I also love parties! Let me make all the sweet tea and food and watch people enjoy themselves!
I have donated my time and money to charity. I know that I am competing with agents who rent out movie theaters for their clients. I polled a few of my repeat clients, and asked if they would like to be treated to perks like that and they told me NO. My favorite charities to donate to currently are The Homeless Prevention program at Society of St. Vincent de Paul , 1Mission Housing , and Phoenix Refugee Connections. They are doing amazing work to create dwelling places for people. :)
My main priorities are still education, community building and service. However, this IS a business, and I am still working on the best way to PROVIDE (yes, I feed, clothe and sports my kids with my income) for my family, while still maintaining true to myself. So, with that said, maybe I do have to step up my birthday card mailing list? Maybe I have to get out there and sell myself more? I have built a successful career running my business how I want to run it, but we all need some shaking up at times. I get contacted almost daily from past clients regarding real estate. I love that they do see me as that ongoing resource. What do you appreciate about how I operate my business (if you’re a client)? If you are an another agent reading this, how do you feel about the a prescribed way of running a real estate business?
